by MARK GABRISH CONLAN
Copyright © 2013 by Mark Gabrish Conlan for Zenger’s
Newsmagazine • All rights reserved
Alfie flies Trans
flag at rally
“Support Trans youth”
James (center) &
Cathy Mendonça (right)
Cathy with the “Black
& Pink” banner
Crowd
James
Daniela
Trey (center)
“Binary thinking is
obsolete”
Alfie Padilla
The Sister
“Trans children
deserve love”
Ezekiel Reis Burgin
Flag bearer
The “spiral hug” that
ended the event
Braving
darkness, cold, the threat and — briefly — the reality of rain, 60 Transgender
people and their supporters turned out in front of the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual,
Transgender Pride Flag at University Avenue and Normal Street in Hillcrest
Friday, November 22 for a rally in support of AB 1266. Also known as the
California Success and Opportunity Act, this is a bill the California
legislature passed this summer, and Governor Jerry Brown signed into law August
17, which would add to state law protecting public school students from
discrimination the following: “A pupil shall be permitted to participate in
sex-segregated school programs and activities, including athletic teams and
competitions, and use facilities consistent with his or her gender identity,
irrespective of the gender listed on the pupil’s records.”
Though the bill
nowhere uses the term “Transgender,” nor does it specify that the “facilities”
it mentions include school restrooms, most of the opposition has focused on the
alleged “danger” of allowing students to use restrooms based on their sense of
their own gender rather than their biological organs. “No 13-year-old girls
should have to have the continued apprehension of a boy seeing them naked in the
locker room,” said Brad Dacus of the Pacific Justice Institute (PJI), one of
the groups currently organizing a referendum campaign to give the state’s
voters a chance to decide whether or not to allow AB 1266 to take effect.
James, an
activist with Canvass for a Cause (CFAC) and Black and Pink San Diego — two of
the groups, along with SAME Alliance, that sponsored the November 22 event —
MC’d the rally and explained the importance of beating back the referendum.
“Already one of the most vulnerable communities as far as bullying and
houselessness,” James explained, “Trans youth are now literally being driven to
suicide and harassment by Transphobic organizations like the Pacific Justice
Institute and the National Organization for Marriage (NOM). … Over the past few
months, they have been running a media smear campaign against Trans youth and
lying to get this issue on the ballot.”
The AB 1266
support rally was held November 22 because that was supposed to be the deadline
by which the California Secretary of State’s office would be certifying whether
the referendum made it to the ballot or not. But that was still up in the air
when the rally took place. James announced that the referendum sponsors had
turned in 547,984 signatures — short of the 620,000 they claimed in their press
releases — and need 504,000 valid
signatures to put the issue before voters.
Signatures can
be invalidated for several reasons — the signer is either not eligible to vote
or not registered at their current address, or the signature was illegible or
didn’t contain enough information to verify whether the person was registered
or not — and what the Secretary of State usually does it select some of the
petitions at random, check them against voter registration records, calculate
what percent of the signatures on the petitions they did check were valid, and apply that to the total. If
there’s a near-miss, sponsors can ask for the time-consuming process of
validating all the petitions, not
just a sample. Given the tightness of the margin, 92 percent of the signatures
on the anti-AB 1266 petitions would have to be valid to put the referendum on
the ballot. That’s higher than usual, but not unachievable.
James said one
purpose of the rally was to get people to sign pledge cards promising to be part
of the campaign against the referendum if it makes it to the ballot, and to
continue to defend AB 1266 if the referendum fails but the opponents keep
trying to sink it. “There is a Plan B to Pacific Justice Institute (PJI) not
being successful in getting AB 1266 to qualify for a referendum: it’s file a
federal lawsuit,” states a post on the Transadvocate Web site, http://www.transadvocate.com.
“And it appears that they’re ‘ambulance chasing’ for another Jane Doe to
bully: they’re asking for potential plaintiffs to contact them.”
“We are up
against organizations with ridiculous amounts of money,” James said. “I like to
say they have a whole lot of dollars but not a lot of sense. But what we have
is spirit and people power, which is a whole hell of a lot more than what any
dollar can do. We need you to volunteer so we can counteract the negative media
storm … the anti-Trans are pushing onto the public. We need to have
face-to-face conversations and voter outreach to make sure everyone understands
that this bill supports our youth.”
Rally organizers
invited a few speakers and then opened the mikes for everyone who wanted to
address the crowd — but they stipulated that only Transgender people would be allowed to speak at the event. The idea
was to bring forward people who aren’t usually heard in public venues and allow
Transgender people to speak for themselves instead of having Gay, Lesbian,
Bisexual or straight supporters speak on their behalf. “I’ve never done anything
like this in my life,” said Daniela, one of the first speakers. “I’ve given
talks at schools, but I’ve never actually talked at a rally, so this is pretty
exciting.”
After thanking
the crowd for coming out despite the bad weather, Daniela said, “I’m really
excited about AB 1266. It’s really awesome, because we are one step towards
being more equal. But I would like to say that I really feel that none of us
are equal unless all of us are equal. …
Sometimes I personally don’t feel like I’m a strong, independent woman.
Sometimes I feel like I’m being discriminated against. Sometimes I feel like
I’m being harassed, especially when I’m kicked out of restrooms or I’m denied
health care. A lot of people deny my gender identity. It’s tough. But right now
at this moment, I definitely feel like a strong, independent woman. Because I
am very strong, I am very independent, and I am very woman.”
Another speaker,
Trey, recalled his own traumas coming out as Transgender in high school. “I
sent my teacher an e-mail, actually,” Trey said. “I was under the naïve
impression that being Transgender is no big deal. … I asked her to use the
right pronoun and the right name, and she was more or less supportive. But it’s
not just your teacher you have to worry about. It’s also the rest of the staff
and the students. And I’m pretty sure I’m not the only one here who, when faced
with public restrooms, feels panicked.”
Trey said his
ability to function at school dropped when the supportive teacher “was removed
from her job” and “replaced with another teacher who did not respect my
pronouns and did not use my proper name. So while I was at school, I had either
to avoid using the restroom or to use the women’s room, which made me feel like
I was taking a massive step backwards.… If I had had the support then that I do
now, I really would have had a lot smoother transition, and I would be a lot
more at peace with my mental health now.”
Alfie Padilla,
who unlike Daniela is an old hand at speaking at political events, used her
turn to rally the crowd and call on them to get as “fired up” as the opponents
of AB 1266. “See how many crazy people signed that petition?” she said. “That’s
not good, not good. The opposition, they’ve not only got millions of dollars,
they’ve also got a lot of churches in their pocket, which is not good. … One
crazy church got 46,000 signatures alone. These people drove hours and hours to
get these petitions in. Some people drove up to five hours just to go drop off
these petitions to take Transgender kids’ rights away. I can think of much
better things to do with five hours than taking Transgender kids’ rights away!
Let me tell you, these people are active. And we need to be just as active.
Actually, we need to be a little more
active.”
According to
Alfie, AB 1266 is important not just to middle school and high school students
but “all the way down from kindergarten to 12th grade. There are
elementary school kids who need a place to pee! People need a place to pee!
Jesus. Not only that, be all know how bad the bullying can get in the
restrooms. You want to know what I did? I skipped! Because it’s awful. You know
what I wanted? An education. And I didn’t really get it, because I skipped. And
that’s what we really need to avoid. I read something today that one in six Transgender
students drop out, and that’s three times more than the average dropout rate.”
Alfie also said
that it wasn’t just “straight conservative people” who signed the referendum
against AB 1266. “Part of the LGBT [Queer] community signed that petition!” she
said. “We can all try to act like that didn’t happen, but it totally did. As I
always like to say, there’s ‘G’ really big over here, and then ‘L,’ and ‘B’
over here, and then the ‘T’ is like somewhere really small, like over on
another page. It’s like a different font. It’s a little like a comic strip, and
this is serious. It’s like real life! So keep these conversations going. Keep
it up. Keep it on Facebook, if you do that. Blog it. Keep it people’s mouths,
because this fight has just begun.”
“I’m one of the
older people in the community,” said an unidentified speaker in the nun’s-habit
drag of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. “Back in the early 1990’s there
was a TV show called Ally McBeal, and
they only had one fricking bathroom! Anybody could use it. I don’t understand
why people are worried over where people poop. … If you’ve felt uncomfortable
for years, and now you accept who you are and need to poop in the ‘other’
bathroom, then you should poop there, because everybody poops, and should feel
comfortable doing it. It’s a normal biological function.”
“We are in the
heart of the Queerest area of San Diego, right? And I see a problem,” said
Ezekiel Reis Burgin, a counselor who works with Transgender and Queer people
and can be reached through the Web site www.socialjusticehealing.com.
“There is Gossip Grill right there, and how many people are in there right now
drinking their homoerotic drinks and eating their homoerotic food — I don’t
know if any of you guys have read their menu, but they’re pretty homoerotic —
but they don’t give a shit! They don’t give a shit about what’s going on in the
Trans community! And that’s what we need to be doing. We need to be going to
the Gossip Grills, to the Mo’s Café or whatever it’s called. We need to be
reaching out to the community that supposedly includes us — but doesn’t — every
day of the year.”
“Out of the
bars, and into the streets!,” the crowd chanted in response — consciously or
unconsciously echoing one of the earliest Queer liberation slogans from the
1970’s, when middle- and upper-class Gay men who frequented fancy bars thought
themselves as distant from the Queer-rights struggles of the political radicals
and gender outlaws that started the Queer liberation movement.
“No matter what
happens with [AB 1266], our struggles are not over,” said James to wrap up the
event. “Tonight is a call to action for us to talk to everyone we know and
organize however we can to ensure and tackle issues for the Trans community:
safe schools, housing and job discrimination, harassment and assault, and
access to health care. Right now, we see that our youth need our support.”